Telling the truth can be so hurtful but If you do not want to do that, then you have to lie. It takes more lies to cover a simple lie and mark my words, it can be painful to the people affected by your lies. See what happened to Malaysia. We had a compulsive liar elected by majority of fools, resulting in massive debt to the people of Malaysia. Some even call him Bossku. He added another RM600 Billion debt to the people of Malaysia. He destroyed many institutions that we used to be proud-off like Felda Holdings Bhd, LTAT, LTH, PNB, EPF, KWAP, MARA and others. Husband and wife must also be truthful to each other or else the children will suffer. Put away your ego and listen to their grouses. The old school way like carrot and stick doesn’t work anymore. You cane your children and you might endup in jail. No one is above the law!